Change is Life

A life is a journey full of changes. It is changing every second. Change is the most important part of our life. Everything changes. Time changes, weather changes, circumstances change, age and body changes every year, fashion changes, moreover people change, life is impossible without change.

Some changes are good and joyful, whereas some are bad and some are very painful. Sometimes we want to change our situations for out betterment and some time just change in our attitude makes our world beautiful. Sometimes we don't want change in our life but we have to accept the change. These changes are God's planning and are called painful changes. But remember that every change what kind of it is, it is only for our betterment. Some changes are brought into our life by us and make our life worst. I mean to say when our circumstances changes and we forget our pain and change our attitude towards the people who were kind with us or with poor people. These are bad changes and these changes take us back to hard days.

Life is precious and will end one day. Life has given so many gifts and so many chances and opportunity. But we moreover miss them because we are very far away from us and from ours. If you feel life is not changing, sometime it happens with very rare people. So what, you bring some change into your life. There is always something good and something bad in every situation not only situation everything has good and bad properties. It's up to us how we take. If we find good things then life will be peaceful and attract happiness whereas if we find faults or negativity then life more negativity, aggression, frustration, fear, despair etc. Try to be thankful to God early in the morning whenever you open your eyes then day will be good and no change will disturb your peace of mind.

We want to change the world beside ourself because we thing we are perfect. No, we are still not perfect. Perfections and growth comes only with change. Change in job gives you experience, change in thoughts can change your life and even your relationship. As time passes we start adjusting with the change and at the end it is like a huge surprise. We have to keep and maintain lot of patience. Accepting life as it comes is the best way for being happy throughout the life.

If You Say You Can't, You Won't

 If you say or even think you can't do something, then you won't.

It's that simple. And this is the saddest truth there is in the process of being successful. There are so many hurdles you will face in your journey to wherever it is that you're going, there's no getting around it. There will be plenty of circumstances and people and limits that you will face insisting that you can't. NO matter how positive, how motivated or how successful you become, there will always be obstacles in your way, it's just a natural part in the process. However, the biggest obstacle you will likely face is yourself. I can pretty much guarantee the only thing standing between you and your most outlandish dreams and goals is the limits you place on yourself. 

You can accomplish almost anything you can dream of with the right tools and motivation. But you will not accomplish even your most ordinary goals if you say you can't. You will never know how hard, or how easy something really is until you actually try with all your might if you never even give it a chance. "Can't" is the ultimate serial killer of Chance. You might not even be aware that you are you're own worst enemy, and how much you are limiting yourself simply by your own conviction that you can't. So evaluate the things you think you "can't" and turn it into could be. Start thinking, and then knowing you can and prove yourself wrong knowing you tried your hardest. Then when you think you've done everything you can do, and you can't do anything more, think again.

You CAN do it.

Respect the Perception

My life offered me changes. I grabbed them and every time I felt oh no I again ruined it up!! This was my last chance and again I choosed the wrong way and thought maybe I have no other chance left so I have to deal with whatever it is now! As I am romantic person, all I wanted was a wonderful relationship and a happy life. I felt like I have full right to be happy! When time pass by I was not satisfied with whatever the life gave me and I felt miserable at times. With passing by I learnt lots of things. On process I learnt that I was being dependent on other to get happy! Every time I let my heart fall over with romantic talk, a kind word and appreciation! Then I realized that every time it was other who was making me happy and it was on their hand to control over my life. I just think now that there are many such offering that we have to offer to ourself! A talk to ourself and appreciate our own effort! Wants are never ending and more wants in life make you more !

Dependent so I think whatever we are going through are the result of what we want and what we expected! Now I look the world through my perception and also know that my perception values only for me!! People out there have their own way of living their life! I respect everyone perception! I realized there is no such thing that differentiate between right and wrong! These are made and universally we know nothing! Whatever makes me ease not necessarily ease other person! So live the way you are as who know it might be the perfect! Happiness is a habit and adopt that. Don't let any other control over your life!

Until Being Strong Is Your Only Choice

Change is considerably easier when you have a full complement of supporting partners and unlimited resources. But, since very often it is the shock of a death, divorce or some other life tragedy that unceremoniously tosses us out of our comfort zone to fend for ourselves, it can mean being forced to strike out alone which for many of us is the scariest part of all.

However, it is indefensible to can claim ignorance to the possible ramifications of continued inaction. The choice belongs to each and every one of us. We all have the power to change both our thoughts and behaviour thereby giving more intentional direction to the remainder of our lives.

Probably the most difficult thing about pursuing significant change is doing it when you don’t have the knowledge, financial or emotional tools available to make the process go smoothly.

I don’t know if it’s possible to leave this world with zero regrets. Because of the natural life cycles and the fact that sometimes it’s the tragedy that causes our awakenings we often have our epiphanies too late to avoid certain painful outcomes.

The Truth Is, I Don't 'Have It All Together'

Recently I have had a few friends and family members comment to me, 'you seem to always have it all together.' I want people, especially other moms out there to know that, I try, but the truth is, I don't 'have it all together.' In today's world, so many parents think they need to live up to a stereotype that in my personal opinion, completely hinders our abilities to enjoy the true meaning of life. 

So in honor of these two photos of my beautiful daughter. It's ok to have dishes backed up in your sink, it's ok for your house to not look like a show home on a daily basis. We all do it. Whether we admit it or not, just know when you feel overwhelmed, you are not alone. You are doing your best, so keep doing it. The happiness you bring to your children is not measured by what you own, what you buy, or what your house looks like on a daily basis. Happiness is measured by the time spent and memories made with your children and your family. Don't ever forget that, don't ever forget to actually love what matters.

I'm just ME

I'm not perfect, I'm me.  I've made bad decisions and wrong choices, but I'm me.  I've said the wrong things; I've said the right things, because I am me.  I don't like everything I've done, but I did it because I'm me.  I've loved the wrong people and trusted the wrong people and I'm still me.  If I had  chance to start again, I wouldn't change a thing.  Why? Because I'm me. There are a lot of good things about me; you just need to look past the imperfections to see what's right. If you can't do that them it's your loss.  I'm the best I can be.  I am ME!